Why do women get put through hoops before they’re considered datable?
My friend recently got into a hissy fit because he realized his current Girlfriend-thingy (they’ve known each other for 3 weeks, the first one of which had him was certain he was going to marry her) had sex with one of his distant friends months ago.
My friend must have had at least 3 partners within the weeks prior to seeing this girl.
Why is it that women need to be put through a sexual and moral history questionnaire before they’re considered datable, but men seem to never feel the need to fess up to anything?
This is at least the second detailed time I’ve seen this occur, the first being when I was trying to hook up two friends of mine. The male one seemed overly concerned that I was hooking him up with a historically promiscuous girl, despite how many random partners he’s had in his past (or what type of protection he may have not used with them).
I just notice, as a man, there seems to be this rather disgusting double standard where men (read: boys, because real men need to be beyond this) feel that whatever they put their dick in must meet the standards of pristine in their head, but few if any reasons should exist for women to ask the same of them, let alone that they hold themselves to their own standards.
Really reflects a lack of maturity approaching life. How can you expect to ever have a healthy relationship with someone if you constantly hold them to standards not only far above what you hold yourself to, but standards that by your early 20s are incredibly unrealistic or demanding. Why should a woman be required to spill how many men she had sex with in the last year, but it may be insulting to even ask you to wear a condom? Or worse… spill how many women you had sex with in the last year?
Men with Momma complexes. All over the place.
Because homosexuality is the worst thing that has or ever will happen to the Earth, bringing about a Sodom and Gomorrah type event.
This is what happens when the government allows its obligations to be contracted out to private corporations. Fortunately, there’s constitutional grounds to combat this on that even private organizations must follow.
While I don’t question that the U.S. has a tendency to hand out exaggerated prison sentences to portray a “tough on crime” image, Mr. Haberman in this article has picked and argued the worst example of this. Ex-NYPD Officer Pena may not have murdered anyone, but the fact that he raped someone while invested with the trust of the City of New York to protect and serve, warrants a heavier than normal sentence. Mr. Pena not only was fully aware of what law he was breaking, and what harm he was causing, but he’s actually the person we look to to enforce those same laws! And to protect people from the same harm he’s causing! Notably, Mr. Haberman in this article makes no mention of the infamously egregious sentences given for crack dealing from the 90s till now. I also doubt he’s written any article arguing why those should be reduced in the face of social systems encouraging and profiting off systemic poverty. But why do that when you can write about how a rape-cop might be getting too heavy a punishment?
See this is one of my biggest problems: when grown adults act like they have the mental capacity of babies. You know when you have kids in pre-school, and one kid may be mentally or physically challenged and therefore receives some sort of special care (a permanent caretaker or extra help in feeding) or tools (a wheelchair or special “safe” toys) and other kids, unaware of the true meaning of why these kids are getting the special attention they get or why that attention signifies a loss rather than a gain, want to get the same kind of special attention? That’s how ill informed people (read: normally conservatives) seem to act any time a certain race or special interest group gets some sort of specialized attention or slogan. This comes in many forms. Why people display behavior patterns similar to that of a baby saddens and baffles me. I have a friend who didn’t understand why on Facebook I highlight articles particularly about minority victimization rather than victimization in general (read: white people, since that seemed to be the only group he was concerned was left out). Trying to explain to him that highlighting these articles gives more validation to how sad the necessity for this is (in comparison to mainstream groups that will always get highlighted) rather than the gain of positive attention was only so successful. Unaware of the fact that the need for this attention or slogan signifies a macro-level loss rather than gain, many people try to almost jealously create or get their own “special highlight.” Clearly Rush Limbaugh doesn’t understand the difference between a phrase highlighting the minimization of Black life in America (which also got proven when an ex-friend of mine seemed particularly more obsessed with how violated his life had once been by a Black man rather than the larger macro problems of stereotyping all Black men as criminals - excuse my tangent) and re-appropriation of that same phrase to defend against non-violent criticism of political agendas. C’mon world, we need to do better.
Our world far underestimates women, especially when assuming their roles in political movements amounts to little more than being a cum rag. Neo Nazis are apparnetly using women to inconspicuously infiltrate organizations and early-educate kids.
Ladies….know your worth.
(via royalempress)

Perhaps. He’s certainly a statistical management nightmare. Apparently this man compressed a longitudinal study into evidence that Black Women were genetically more unattractive than other races.
Just the tip of the iceberg, since this dude has apparently also tried to publish studies suggesting that racism in the United States is a myth. Someone’s trying to start a race war….
Men!: You are FAR too sensitive.
Women always get the bad rap from being stereotyped as “sensitive” when in reality, men are some of the biggest cry babies on Earth!
I’m sorry, I’m one that doesn’t really tolerate bullshit. And I’m very quick to call it out. And the most flak I get from people when I call out their bullshit, happen to be men (and my girlfriend but that’s another story entirely).
Guys, I’m sorry, but in all 21 years of being a man I haven’t seen a gender with over-all more sensitive, whiney, dramatic, easily offended people. Women, I’m sorry that the past millenniums have seen you cast into the role of emotionally weak.
