Why do women get put through hoops before they’re considered datable?
My friend recently got into a hissy fit because he realized his current Girlfriend-thingy (they’ve known each other for 3 weeks, the first one of which had him was certain he was going to marry her) had sex with one of his distant friends months ago.
My friend must have had at least 3 partners within the weeks prior to seeing this girl.
Why is it that women need to be put through a sexual and moral history questionnaire before they’re considered datable, but men seem to never feel the need to fess up to anything?
This is at least the second detailed time I’ve seen this occur, the first being when I was trying to hook up two friends of mine. The male one seemed overly concerned that I was hooking him up with a historically promiscuous girl, despite how many random partners he’s had in his past (or what type of protection he may have not used with them).
I just notice, as a man, there seems to be this rather disgusting double standard where men (read: boys, because real men need to be beyond this) feel that whatever they put their dick in must meet the standards of pristine in their head, but few if any reasons should exist for women to ask the same of them, let alone that they hold themselves to their own standards.
Really reflects a lack of maturity approaching life. How can you expect to ever have a healthy relationship with someone if you constantly hold them to standards not only far above what you hold yourself to, but standards that by your early 20s are incredibly unrealistic or demanding. Why should a woman be required to spill how many men she had sex with in the last year, but it may be insulting to even ask you to wear a condom? Or worse… spill how many women you had sex with in the last year?
Men with Momma complexes. All over the place.
Ladies….know your worth.